Most of the weird social situations bi people (women in particular) have to deal with are summed right up with this Buzzfeed video, 15 Bisexual Girl Problems. The 2 minute video accurately depicts the awkward situations bisexual women face in a world that assumes you’re only attracted to one gender.

The scene is set at a house party where the bisexual woman is timid to enter because last time her friends saw her she was dating a guy. “You have a girlfriend now? Is your ex-boyfriend, like, super mad?” says one party goer to the not amused bisexual woman.

The video wouldn’t be complete without a reference to a threesome. Women tend to be sexualized in society as a whole. But when you’re a queer woman, the sexualization reaches a new level of disrespect.

A male party-goer asks, “Is your friend single?”
“That’s actually my girlfriend so no,” she replies.
“Niicee,” says the creepy guy.

Note to creepy guys everywhere: Stop asking lesbian and bisexual women for threesomes.

Watch the full video here: