Cute guys are a dime a dozen. There will always be cute guys, so don’t be upset if one rejects you. Don’t do anything stupid just to have sex with one. Relax. You have the rest of your life to sleep with cute men.
Use condoms (even if you're on PrEP)
If you just came out and are just starting to get comfortable with your sexuality, the last thing you'll want to be doing is getting an STD or STI. Honestly, it’s just going to bum you out and make you never want to have sex again. So wear condoms. (Even if you’re on PrEP!)
Tell him what you’re into beforehand
Sex shouldn’t be a guessing game. If you’re into something, let him know beforehand that you like X, Y, Z, and it would really turn you on if he did that to you.
Be vocal during sex
During sex, you should also be vocal about what you’re liking and not liking. If that position isn’t doing anything for you, tell him you want to be change positions. He isn’t a mind reader. Let him know what’s up!
Have sex with guys who are outside your normal “preference”
We all have men who we are attracted to and not attracted to. I’m not saying that you should sleep with men you’re not attracted to, but I am saying that you should broaden your horizons.
It’s 2017. Being a top or bottom only is so passé. Do it all. Be a millennial, renaissance man!
You can say “no” anytime before or during sex
You can always say no anytime before or during sex without an ounce of shame. If you don’t feel comfortable, you have a right to stop having sex at anytime.
Figure out your own method of cleaning your butt
There are plenty of ways to get a deep clean. Figure out if a douche (or some other way) is the right way for you!
Never feel embarrassed/ashamed/awkward about asking a guy’s status or wanting to wear a condom
You should never get uncomfortable or feel bad for asking a guy what his status is, as well as asking him to use a condom.
Lube is your best friend. The more lube the better. You want to be turning that bed of yours into a Slip 'N Slide!
Explore your kinks
We all have some form of kink. Something a little more exciting that we’re into. Explore them now. There’s literally no reason to wait.