Have you ever fallen in love only to discover that orgies are normal part of your sex life, but they scare your partner more than the risk of nuclear war? Or perhaps you love being tied up, but even some nice fluffy handcuffs bug your bae out? Kink incompatibility happens all the time, and it can feel heart (and boner) breaking when it’s with someone you’re otherwise into.
If you have a consensual kink, you deserve to experience it, and kudos to you for being brave enough to know what you need in the bedroom. (Society loves to kink-shame!) Unless your current partner is actively also shaming you for your kinks, it’s totally possible to work out a sexual relationship that doesn’t immediately fit like a lock into a chastity belt. Or maybe it’s time to be brutally honest and let it go.
So here’s seven suggestions for if you and your partner aren’t kink compatible.