The following Dolly Parton interviewed originally appeared in the July 1997 issue of Out magazine.
Dolly Parton is ready for dinner. All five-foot-one of her bodacious curves and Dynel blondness is perched on Frederick's of Hollywood-style mules as she moves through the lobby of the posh Pierre hotel overlooking New York's Central Park. Hers is a Southern manner both gracious and "oh my gracious."
Patsy Cline in Jessica Rabbit's body, she offers a friendly hello to anyone who cranes his neck to glimpse her-which is everyone. As she descends the stairs and settles into a corner banquette in the hotel cafe, the waiters stand in awe, each wearing a grin that says, It's so nice to have you back where you belong. One thing is certain: She is looking swell, this Dolly. A triumph of style over fashion in "an Azzedine shirt and a K Mart skirt," she is a star and then some. An icon, I call her. "An icon or an eyesore?" Parton shoots back.
This is definitely going to be fun.
"I can't even begin to imagine dressing up in a nice business suit and coming down to dinner," she says, after ordering seared foie gras and mashed potatoes. "I would much rather have the shock value of walking down the steps with my tits hanging out but knowing that I've still got the same brain and the same talent. What kind of fun would I have doing it if I had to be ordinary?"
Over the past 40 years, Parton has made a career of being extraordinary. By her own larger-than-life design-"It costs a lot of money to look this cheap!"-this backwoods babe has reinvented herself as a devilish cartoon with an angel's voice, a slyly campy comedian who has penned some of pop's most enduring songs, and an entertainer whose fans include punk rockers and Bible-thumpers, cross-dressers and conservatives, Calvin Klein and your mother. As Parton's friend, humorist and social-critic-at-large Fran Lebowitz says, "Even people who hate each other love Dolly Parton."
Worth an estimated $100 million-the royalties from Whitney Houston's megahit version of Parton's "I Will Always Love You" weren't exactly chump change-she has been to Hollywood, built a Great Smoky Mountains theme park called Dollywood, survived more than a few savagings by supermarket tabloids, and conquered a weight problem brought on because, as she says, "I'm a true hog by nature." With her classic country songs ("Jolene," "Coat of Many Colors"), her movie appearances (Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, Steel Magnolias), and her TV specials, she has garnered four Grammys, seven Country Music Association Awards, and even an Oscar nomination (for the title song to 9 to 5).
Parton's rags-to-riches story has always had particular resonance for gay and lesbian fans. After all, she was RuPaul before RuPaul was born, a paragon of self-reinvention outlined in lip-liner and raised to the heavens by an industrial-strength push-up bra. Born dirt poor and raised on a farm in Sevier County, Tennessee, Parton came from "a family of dreamers"—people with musical ability and a great sense of humor. But no matter how musical, they weren't exactly ready for a daughter as colorful as Dolly. "I used to fight with my daddy and my mama about the stuff I wore," she says. "I wasn't doing it to be trashy. I was doing it 'cause I didn't feel right just being ordinary. It was almost like being gay. It's a good thing I was born a woman, 'cause I'da damn sure been a drag queen if I hadn't. I can't get flamboyant enough."
Young Dolly found her soon-to-be signature look on a trip into town when she spotted a woman with "yellow blond hair all done up and bright red nails and high heels and this real tight skirt. I was a child, and I thought she was beautiful. Someone said, 'Oh, she's just a tramp.' And I thought, That's what I'm going to be when I grow up. So I patterned myself after the town tramp. I still have that look, and I still love it." As many of us struggle to do, the grown-up Parton merges citified sophistication with the human decency that comes from having the humblest of backgrounds. As Lebowitz says, "She would have been a star in any era."
Now, at 51, the singer, songwriter, author, actress, businesswoman, and theme park operator is reaching out to a new audience-circuit queens and club kids. She's doing it with a house version of "Peace Train," her cover of the 1971 Cat Stevens song. Remixed by DJ Junior Vasquez, among others, and featuring backup by the South African a cappella group Ladysmith Black Mambazo, the track originally came from her 1996 album, Treasures (Rising Tide). Released to disappointing sales, the eclectic, all-covers CD included Parton's versions of various country tunes plus Neil Young's ''After the Gold Rush" and Katrina the Waves' 1980s hit "Walking on Sunshine" (the song scheduled to be her second dance remix, due out later this year).
"I was looking for something to do that might be accepted in the 'new country' field," Parton says. "I'd tried a few other things that hadn't worked, and I thought, Well, maybe this'll work, and I did Treasures, and sure enough, that didn't work either." She laughs, then turns serious. "It's very hard anymore for some of us older artists to know what to do. You really can't sell yourself completely out and do something that's really not you, if you've always been trying to do quality stuff."
This is not Parton's first time at the disco—her 1978 "Baby, I'm Burnin"' and 1979's "Great Balls of Fire" were dance-oriented too—but Dolly as a full-fledged house diva is a new concept, courtesy of Kyle Utley, president of Flip-It Records, which is releasing the remixes. He thought Treasures was "brilliantly produced" (by Steve Buckingham) and that "Peace Train" was a natural for the dance floor. "Dolly sang her ass off on that album," says Utley. "I knew that if this woman would do a house track, the reaction would be volcanic." Judging from initial reaction in clubs like Arena, the New York hot spot where Vasquez spins, Utley is convinced it'll be a "monster hit."Parton is pleased by Utley's enthusiasm, but her predictions are more reserved. "They think they can sell it," she says. "I'm always tickled to be in any new place they put me." Those new places include an interview on RuPaul's radio show on New York's disco station WKTU—RuPaul is beautiful," Parton says—and her picture on the cover of Out.
These are unusual gigs for someone whose core audience includes members of the religious Right. In fact, at risk of reaching perhaps too wide an audience with her gay-friendly image, some of Parton's Southern "businesspeople" advised her to turn down RuPaul's VHl show. But Parton has no fear of potential repercussions from her conservative fans. "They could probably pitch a fit, but what am I supposed to do? This is what I do for a living," she says. "Gay people are fans of mine. It's two different worlds, and I live in both and I love them both, and I understand and accept both."
Parton has always been good at building bridges. When she first made the crossover to pop—with hits like "Here You Come Again" in 1977 and "9 to 5" in 1980—she said, 'I'm not leaving country, I'm just taking it with me." And in her private life, some of her closest friends are light-years from Nashville. Parton's best buddy since the early 1970s is her manager, Sandy Callin, the openly gay super-power broker who has advised Michael Jackson, Cher, Whoopi Goldberg, and Barbra Streisand, among others, and whose intimates include David Geffen and other members of Hollywood's so-called Velvet Mafia. "He's everything you would think that I wouldn't be compatible with," Parton says, "but Sandy and I fell in love instantly. He's the only person who ever saw my dreams the way I see them and believed it when I said I was going to be a big star." For his part, Callin calls Parton his "soul mate" and says the two are "as close as two people can be who aren't having sex."
"Parton's friendship with writer Lebowitz, the curmudgeon's curmudgeon, isn't exactly expected either. "Now you talk about an off-the-wall person and an unlikely friend of mine. She is such a hoot," Parton says. The twosome's nights out in New York's bohemian East Village—the inspiration for one awestruck lesbian short film—are legendary among the city's dykes.
Fueled by such allegiances, rumors that she's gay have surrounded Parton for years. "Everything that could be said about anyone has been said about Dolly," Callin says. Parton is glad to talk about the rumors and anything else. "That's half the fun for magazines like this," she says. "I don't care what you ask me. And if it's the truth, I'll tell you that, too." Some of her gay fans—and probably some of her detractors—cling to the belief that there's a bull dyke with a crew cut under all that gussy. At the very least, they want to know what the deal is with her constant companion, Judy Ogle. Parton wrote about their friendship in her 1994 autobiography, Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business, and makes no secret of the fact that she's sharing a suite upstairs with Ogle the night we meet at the Pierre. But in divulging everything, Parton can leave you more confused than you were when you started.
"We've been best friends since we were in the third grade," she says. "A lot of people have tried to link us, but I'm not the least bit gay. Like I say, I'm not gay but my girlfriend is. That's like something I saw on a shirt. But anyway, Judy's just an old maid. People think because she never married that she must be a lesbian, and that because we've been together, that we must be lovers. But the fact is, I think Judy would rather be called a lesbian than an old maid.... She's had boyfriends over the years. She just never met anybody she loved enough to leave what she loved doing. But we're not lovers. If l was gay, I'd certainly never find a finer person than Judy as a mate. I'm as close to her just about as I am with my husband."
Parton has been married to Carl Dean for 33 years. Although rumormongers say she never sees her husband, Parton says she's with him more than ever, now that she's not touring. "They don't see me see my husband because he hates being in the limelight. But I see him all the time," she says. The secret to their marriage? "We just make a point to enjoy the stuff we enjoy together and stay out of each other's faces. I don't get in his shit, and he don't get in mine. And we get along great."
So does she have short black hair under her wig, as some have suggested? "Oh, I do not. I keep it bleached, and it's the same length that I keep my wigs. I don't always wear a wig. I do when I'm working because I can't stand to sit under a hair dryer or wait around with people pulling on my head. A lot of my early star days, I wasn't wearing wigs. We teased that hair up there and bleached it till it was just like a haystack." But nowadays, she says, "It's like one of my favorite jokes: How long does it take to do your hair? I say, 'Hell, I never know. I'm never there!"'
Parton has always been able to toss off a good zinger. While she may not call herself a feminist, she has used her cartoonish femininity to her advantage."Being a woman always served me well. Somebody said, 'Well, you know, it's always going to be a man's world.' I said, 'Well, you know what? I don't mind that it's a man's world, as long as they don't mind if we run it!"' Parton even stood up to The King. Elvis Presley wanted to record "I Will Always Love You" which Parton wrote in 1972 as a heartfelt adieu to her longtime singing partner, Porter Wagoner. Parton was thrilled with the prospect until she was told that as part of the deal Presley wanted half the publishing rights. "I said, 'Well, in that case, I don't guess Elvis is going to be recording "I Will Always Love You."' Everybody said, 'You've got to be out of your damn mind,"' Parton remembers. But she prevailed. She always has.
Still, no matter how rich or how successful she has become, Parton never shuns her fans. "It isn't that she's nice for a star, she's nice for anyone," says Fran Lebowitz. "Dolly talks to everyone who talks to her. If you're out to dinner with her, it ends up where you have the waiter sitting at the table." At the Pierre, the waiter hovers over Parton's table without ever pulling up a chair. But he would be as welcome as the crème brûlée put down before the guest of honor. "We're all exactly the same," Parton says, savoring the sweetness of her dessert. "Some of us just can express it better."


























































11 times J.K. Rowling did something wildly transphobic, ranked
J.K. Rowling attends day four of Royal Ascot at Ascot Racecourse on June 20, 2025 in Ascot, England.
This story originally appeared on Out.
For almost a decade now, Harry Potter author J.K. Rowling has been spreading transphobia and has become the poster child for the UK’s troubling movement of TERFs (trans-exclusionary radical feminists). She has gone on transphobic tirades on social media, written a nearly 4,000-word anti-trans manifesto, donated some of her fortune to anti-trans causes, regularly misgenders trans women, and gleefully celebrates every time the transgender community has their rights stripped away.
The author, once revered for creating an inclusive fantasy world where good triumphs over evil, let her LGBTQ+ fans down by consistently doubling down on her transphobic rhetoric. She has painted trans women as predators who are lying about their gender to take away women’s rights and enter women’s spaces under false pretenses. This dangerous vitriol has even caused many of the stars of the Harry Potter franchise to come forward and call her out for her anti-trans takes.
For queer and trans fans of Harry Potter, this abrupt turn was jarring and has undermined their love of a fictional world where marginalized groups are loved and fought for. But Rowling hasn’t just disappointed her fans by spreading her hateful views; she’s also done so in some of the most bizarre ways, leaving many people not just outraged, but scratching their heads.
11. Tone deaf Dolly Parton tribute
Rowling joined the world in mourning Dolly Parton by posting a tribute on X that backfired when the country music legend’s fans came out in droves to point out that Parton loved the LGBTQ+ community and wouldn’t have supported Rowling’s TERF views.
After Parton fans flooded Rowling’s comment section with messages like, “She certainly would have thought of you as a nasty, hateful woman. Nice little tweet though,” Rowling attempted to hit back after a user called her “a fucking monster” by posting, “Well, joke’s on you, because neither of us want Jolene to take our man.”
10. Accidentally wrote “f*ck up some TERFs” on a child’s drawing
Seemingly by mistake, Rowling replied to post on X about a nine-year-old kid’s drawing of Ickabog, a monster from her children’s book, by including text she likely meant to copy and paste elsewhere.
“I love this truly fabulous Ickabog, with its bat ears, mismatched eyes, and terrifying bloodstained teeth! In court, Wolf claimed the Facebook post in which he’d said he wanted to ‘f*** up some TERFs’ was just ‘bravado’. #TheIckabog.”
Internet sleuths figured out that in the post, Rowling was misgendering Tara Wolf, a trans woman accused of assaulting Maria MacLachlan, who was at an anti-trans protest in 2017.
9. Accused Olympic boxer Imane Khelif of being trans
When Algerian boxer Imane Khelif took home gold at the 2024 Paris Olympics, Rowling joined fellow wealthy bigot Elon Musk in spreading the rumor that the cisgender boxer was secretly a man, leaning hard into the ever-present transphobia and anti-intersex hate in women's sports.
Even after both Rowling and Musk were named in a criminal complaint filed with French authorities over alleged “acts of aggravated cyber harassment,” Rowling refused to let it go and continued to post anti-trans posts accusing Khelif of lying about her gender.
8. Transvestigated another athlete
Less than five months after harassing Olympic boxer Imane Khelif for supposedly being trans, Rowling joined in on another transvestigation of a woman in sports when she accused cisgender Zambian soccer player Barbra Banda of secretly being a man — she is not.
Rowling took exception to the BBC naming Banda the 2024 Women’s Footballer of the Year. “Presumably the BBC decided this was more time efficient than going door to door to spit directly in women's faces," Rowling wrote on X.
7. Smoked a cigar to celebrate being a TERF
After donating £70,000 (roughly $88,200) to the anti-trans group For Women Scotland in 2024 to help them fight against a 2018 Scottish law that legally recognized trans women as women, Rowling celebrated in a ghoulish way when the U.K. Supreme Court decided that trans women aren’t considered women under the nation’s Equality Act.
Rowling responded to the court decision by posting a photo of herself with a drink in one hand and smoking a cigar with the other. While people like right-wing commentator Megyn Kelly commented “God bless you,” the post was also full of people slamming her for her cruelty in the face of people having their rights taken away. Pedro Pascal even called her out for doing “Voldemort villain s---" and referred to Rowling as a "heinous loser."
6. Accidentally turned herself into a meme
Rowling accidentally turned herself into a meme when she changed her profile pic on X to a photo that showed what looked like black mold-covered walls inside her mansion.
While the photo most likely shows wallpaper and not mold, users ran with it and began joking that the black mold had infected her brain as an explanation for her hateful anti-trans views.
5. Whined about being doxxed
On the eve of Transgender Day of Remembrance in 2021, comedian Holly Stars, actor Georgia Frost and drag king Richard Energy protested Rowling’s anti-trans views by staging a demonstration and posting a photo holding signs in front of the author’s home near Edinburgh, Scotland.
Rowling took exception to her house numbers being visible in the photo and accused the “actor activists” of “doxxing” her in an eight-tweet rant on X. But is it doxxing if the information is already public? Rowling claimed she received “so many death threats I could paper the house with them,” but both of her residences are historical landmarks, and one even has its own Wikipedia page.
4. Wrote a transphobic character that sounds an awful lot like herself
Under her pen name Robert Galbraith, Rowling wrote The Ink Black Heart, where a character gets harassed and doxxed because of their transphobic and racist views.
Rowling claimed that the character wasn’t based on her own experience, despite Rolling Stone writing that the character is doxxed “with photos of her home plastered on the internet” and subjected “to death and rape threats for having an opinion,” which probably sounds pretty familiar to people who have been following the author’s anti-trans outbursts.
3. Called David Tennant the "gender Taliban"
Rowling called Harry Potter actor David Tennant and people like him the “gender Taliban” in a post on X after he spoke out at the British LGBT Awards, where he called transgender critics “a tiny bunch of little whinging f*ckers who are on the wrong side of history, and they’ll all go away soon” and said they are on the “wrong side of history.”
In response, Rowling leaned into hateful anti-trans rhetoric that conflates being transgender with being an abuser of women. “This man is talking about rape survivors who want female-only care, the nurses currently suing their health trust for making them change in front of a man, girls and women losing sporting opportunities to males and female prisoners incarcerated with convicted sex offenders,” she wrote.
2. Dared police to arrest her
Rowling spoke out against Scotland’s new hate crime act in 2024 by daring police to arrest her for misgendering trans women. The act criminalizes “stirring up hatred” regarding age, disability, religion, sexual orientation, transgender identity and variations in sex characteristics, which can result in a fine or a seven-year prison sentence.
Rowling then went on a lengthy tirade on X — something she is known for at this point — where she accused lawmakers of protecting trans women at the expense of “the rights and freedoms of actual women and girls.” She finished by telling the police to come and arrest her if what she wrote “qualifies as an offense” under the new law. “I look forward to being arrested when I return to the birthplace of the Scottish Enlightenment,” she wrote.
1. Posted an upskirt photo
Rowling, who claims to be a protector of women and rails against trans women being allowed in women’s restrooms, targeted a transgender British podcaster who she disagrees with by posting an upskirt photo of her. Freda Wallace became Rowling’s latest target when she refused to engage with the transphobe online.
Rowling responded by misgendering Wallace and posting a photo of her originally taken by anti-trans activist and fellow transphobe Maya Forstater, from slightly below Wallace to show her upper thigh. Rowling said that Wallace refused to debate her but to prove she has “no hard feelings” she posted the photo of another debate. “I hear he left an indelible impression on the audience. And the chair,” Rowling wrote.