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By Arielle ScarcellaFebruary 25 2014 / 3:30 PM
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The funny thing about these types of videos is that none of them can REALLY ever help a couple that much because everyone is so different. Everyone enjoys different things, turn-ons and turn-offs can be the exact same thing for two different people...so we just decided to have a little fun with it instead. What are some ways you keep things interesting?

        
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Sex Tips From A Lesbian And Straight Girl

Sex getting boring? Here are some ways to spice it up!

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