Roses, candles and whipped cream? Quickie in a car? An unplanned night of passion? Any way you lose your virginity it is...let's say, a once in a lifetime experience. And for women having sex with other women, it's a once in a lifetime experience without a real definition. Let's be real. Sex is sex no matter who it's with and Slate couldn't agree more when they try and define when a lesbian loses her virginity.
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