9 Things Bisexual People Are Tired of Hearing on Tinder

People say the silliest things to bisexual people, and some people are so uninformed, they don’t even view it as a legitimate sexuality. *sigh*

Bi erasure and biphobia are all over the place, from the ignorant fellow queer who accuses you of reinforcing the gender binary, to the sad straight dude who assumes you’re now officially gay or straight (but no longer bi) the second you set hands on his sorry penis. While all of this goes down in real life, online on Tinder, where people tend to be bolder, it gets even more ridiculous.

Here are nine things that you grow tired of hearing when swiping while bi.