Let’s face it. Many of us our insecure. It’s tough not to be when we live in a world where our value is often based on our appearance. We’ve created this gay beauty culture. We believe that we need to look a certain way, (white, masculine six pack, and big butt) in order to be worthy of love. This is not true, but it’s so ingrained in us, perpetuated by the gay media. So yeah, a lot of us don’t want to admit it, but we’re deeply insecure. This makes it really difficult to date. Here are 10 tips to dating as an insecure gay/bi man.