Alright, before I accidentally ruffle some feathers with this piece, let me start off by saying that not all bi people are the same. Some are poly. Some cringe at the thought of anything other than monogamy. Some are proud sluts. Others are more prude. (You see what I’m doing here, yeah?) So let’s breathe and enjoy some puns. Because while all bi people are different, I truly do believe that every bi person appreciates a good pun.
With that said, here are 10 situations all bi/pan people can relate to!
Watching A Star is Born is hard for us. There are two insanely talented, beautiful, and creative people up on that screen! Who do we crush on, Bradley Cooper or Lady Gaga? (Trick question! The answer is both and you dream of being in a throuple.)
Hopefully, you’ve reached a place in your life where you no longer feel obligated to prove your sexuality by listing all the guys and girls you’ve had sex with or dated. For years, however, I know that I felt compelled to do this in order to "prove" naysayers wrong.
There’s been actual research that's illustrated that bi men make the best lovers in large part because they feel comfortable exploring different dynamics in the bedroom. They don’t feel compelled to stick to the traditional scripts of how sex is "supposed" to look. A recent piece in Playboy actually confirmed the same is true for bi women.
Obviously this doesn’t pertain to pansexuals, but many people believe that bisexuality perpetuates the gender binary and that a bi person is only attracted to cisgender men and cisgender women. That isn’t the case! Bi people are simply attracted to multiple genders. I, personally, identify as bi even though I’m attracted to all genders.