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Plot Twist : ...without telling him you're gay.
By Arielle ScarcellaJuly 11 2014 / 1:04 PM
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Telling a man that you are gay can usually result in one of two scearios--1. He gets turned on. 2. He asks you what went wrong with men for you to turn gay. Either way, it's all quite annoying. This week Sarah and Adrianna give us some tips on how to turn down a guy without telling him you are gay. 

        
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