15 Things Not To Do After Breaking Up with Your Significant Other

Break-ups are hard. Navigating a break-up can be even harder.

There are no finite rules as to what should go down post break-up, but there are also some blaringly obvious things that we should all take notes on after a split occurs. Here are 15 things you should definitely not do after a break-up. (Eating bonbons in bed—a la Legally Blonde—is totally fine, though.)

1. Do not jump into another relationship[iframe https://giphy.com/embed/4beKHvzjJpPdC allowfullscreen="" class=^{{"giphy-embed"}}^ frameborder="0" height="217" width="480"]

2. Don't blame the break-up on yourself

3. Don't blame the break-up on your partner

4. Do not date/f*ck your partner’s friends

5. Don’t make your mutual friends pick sides

6. Do not think you’re alone or that other people don’t hurt this hard

7. Do not jump into a friendship with your ex

8. Don’t believe that love is dead (it’s just temporarily in a coma)

9. Please don’t text your ex mixed signals. AVOID: "I miss you"[iframe https://giphy.com/embed/26AHr4cjeETrVellm allowfullscreen="" class=^{{"giphy-embed"}}^ frameborder="0" height="264" width="480"]

10. Don’t invite your new side piece to an event you know your ex will be at (well, at least until that side piece has graduated into a boyfriend or girlfriend)

11. Do not think that this horrible heartbroken feeling will last forever

12. Just because the relationship might’ve sucked, don’t think you can’t learn from it[iframe https://giphy.com/embed/KeUHrDNHSL2YE allowfullscreen="" class=^{{"giphy-embed"}}^ frameborder="0" height="253" width="480"]

13. Don’t think you can’t grow from it either. You learn more about yourself when you’re alone than with someone else

14. Do not boo-up with the first person you date. DATE AROUND[iframe https://giphy.com/embed/yfC7Mj2CCEVbi allowfullscreen="" class=^{{"giphy-embed"}}^ frameborder="0" height="240" width="480"]

15. Finally, don’t think that your last relationship was a royal waste of time. That relationship happened for a reason