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Your Dating 'Preferences' Are Racist—Here's Why
Your Dating 'Preferences' Are Racist—Here's Why
MTV Decoded breaks down sexual racism in the gay community.
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February 12 2018 2:47 PM EST
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Your Dating 'Preferences' Are Racist—Here's Why
MTV Decoded breaks down sexual racism in the gay community.
"Sorry, I'm only into white guys."
If you are a person of color on a gay dating app, chances are you've experienced some form of fetishization or racism. To this day, people who throw these kinds of phrases around continue to claim "it's just a preference, bro."
On the latest episode of MTV Decoded, Dylan Marron breaks down sexual discrimination and how "preferences" are, in fact, racist.
"Some forms of discrimination have become so ingrained in gay culture that we don't even realize when we're perpetuating them," explains Marron. "When you’re judging a person based solely on their racial background, you’re acting on generalizations you’ve learned to associate with that person’s appearance or heritage."
He continues dropping knowledge bombs: "We actually learn how to define what is attractive from those around us. And because we’re raised within a framework of Western beauty standards, society often characterizes non-white features as 'different' or 'unattractive.'"
Watch below:
Taylor Henderson is a PRIDE.com contributor. This proud Texas Bama studied Media Production/Studies and Sociology at The University of Texas at Austin, where he developed his passions for pop culture, writing, and videography. He's absolutely obsessed with Beyoncé, mangoes, and cheesy YA novels that allow him to vicariously experience the teen years he spent in the closet. He's also writing one!
Taylor Henderson is a PRIDE.com contributor. This proud Texas Bama studied Media Production/Studies and Sociology at The University of Texas at Austin, where he developed his passions for pop culture, writing, and videography. He's absolutely obsessed with Beyoncé, mangoes, and cheesy YA novels that allow him to vicariously experience the teen years he spent in the closet. He's also writing one!