There are millions of people in this world who cheat on their partners. It’s sad. It’s true. It’s life. There are times when you should take back a cheater, and there are times when you should not. Here’s when you have to get rid of him, no matter how painful it is.
We all make mistakes. We’re human. What separates us, as humans, is if we make the same mistake again. If he hasn’t learned his lesson after the first time, he’s got to go. He’s a born cheater.
If there’s no reason why he did it, there’s no reason to keep him. If there’s a problem in your relationship, a problem big enough that leads to cheating, then he needs to speak up.
If he was sexting, sending naked pics, the whole shebang, then you know his act was premeditated. Not a moment of weakness. Not a slip. He had multiple opportunities to stop it from happening, but he went through with it.
That’s over the line. Not only did he ruin your relationship with him, but he ruined it with a friend. He can’t be forgiven for cheating on you with someone who was your supposed friend.
Nope. Done. Get rid of him. There are clearly some serious residual feelings he has for him.
Some people just aren’t. They’re playboys for life. You can’t force relationships with these guys. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you; it just means you can’t expect to date him exclusively.
You can’t date a cheater AND a liar. He’s already broken your trust by cheating. If he lies on top of that, you’ll never be able to trust him again.
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