7 times Reneé Rapp and Towa Bird were adorable relationship goals

Lesbian musicians Reneé Rapp and Towa Bird have only been dating for a year, but they’ve already become an iconic celesbian couple!

The lovebirds began dating after Bird opened for Rapp during her “Snow Hard Feelings,” a fact that the Sex Lives of College Girls star alluded to in a Hollywood Reporter interview before they made their love public. “I’ve only recently started referring to myself as a lesbian, and I’ve only recently been in a relationship where I’m like, ‘Yeah, I’m a lesbian for sure,’” she said. “[...] I’m watching all these movies and parts of gay culture, specifically lesbian culture, and I’m like, ‘I love this.’ It’s also been the most rewarding, validating, scary and exciting experience ever.”

Not only does the couple bring great masc and femme representation to the table, but they are also adorable together. From performing together with enough torching hot chemistry to start a forest fire to sweet kisses and pet names, they truly are relationship goals.

Hard Launching their relationship

Reneé Rapp and Towa Bird hard launched their relationship at the Vanity Fair Oscars afterparty in March 2024. The cute pair had already toured together, but it wasn’t until they took pictures with Bird’s arm wrapped around Rapp’s waist on the red carpet that their romance became official. The fact that Rapp is wearing a slinky white gown and Bird is sporting an embroidered and studded denim suit made them an instantly iconic lesbian couple.

Calling Towa Bird ‘Baby’

After hard launching their relationship, Rapp was asked to take a shot while being interviewed on the red carpet by Entertainment Tonight, but first she calls Bird over using a sweet pet name. “Baby, come take a shot.” Baby? Swoon!

Kissing on stage at 'All Things Go' music festival

At the All Things Go festival in 2024, the cute couple performed Rapp’s song “Tummy Hurts,” with Rapp singing while Bird played the guitar and mouthed the words. During the performance, Bird gets down on her knees while still shredding and kneels in front of her girlfriend, who then joins her, and the two kiss when the song ends.

While this wasn’t a hot and heavy make-out sesh, seeing two lesbians kiss on stage in front of thousands of people still feels revolutionary!

Singing the 'L Word' theme song together

Iconic lesbian couple singing the iconic lesbian show? That might just be the most sapphic thing we’ve ever seen. Plus, singing along in the car with your girl is relationship goals.

Performing in front of giant scissors

Coachella 2024 was one for the history books. Not only did queer megastar Chappell Roan make her Coachella debut, performing “Red Wine Super Nova” and “Good Luck, Babe!” in front of thousands, but Rapp and Bird also performed together in front of the dyk-iest stage decor ever.

After being introduced byThe L Word creator Ilene Chaiken and stars Leisha Hailey, Kate Moennig, and Jennifer Beals, the couple performed in front of a giant pair of interlocking scissors.

That time they dressed in suits together

Recently, Rapp posted a photo on Instagram of the pair posed together while they were both wearing pinstripe suits and Bird had a pipe between her lips and fake facial hair painted on. They’re too cute and definitely lesbian boyfriend material!

Towa Bird motorboating Reneé Rapp…ok not really

In 2024, the two walked the Vanity Fair Oscars party red carpet together, but this time around Rapp FaceTimed her at the end of the night and had her photo taken with her cell phone — with Bird still on the screen — betwixt her cleavage.

May a love like this find us all!