You used to love going out to gay bars, but now they’re all the same. They’re filled with the same circuit queens who make you feel insecure about your body, aggressive men who seem willfully ignorant about what consent is, and bitchy queens. I get it.
While gay clubs can be a sanctuary to express who you are and to publicly show your love of the same-sex, they can also make you feel more insecure and alone. If you’re in a place where gay bars and clubs aren’t doing it for you like they once used to, keep reading. Here 10 ways you can rediscover your love of gay bars and clubs.