Kat on Falling in Love for the First Time as a Trans Woman

As a trans girl, I felt like I was never going to fall in love. You're taught that the only thing you can bring a man is a bad mark on his reputation and sex. I had an active dating life but I was never able to find someone who was stable and steady until I found my current boyfriend.

I had said "I love you" to people before but I didn't really mean it. I've always been really afraid of saying "I love you" because what if I say it to someone and they don't say it back? How embarassing is that? Watch my video to learn more about how it felt when I said "I love you" to my boyfriend at Disneyland.