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    Discover the 15 safest U.S. cities for LGBTQ+ travel with misterb&b

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    Discover the 15 safest U.S. cities for LGBTQ+ travel with misterb&b

    Get ready for a safe and fabulous LGBTQ+ travel experience

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    The famed Castro District in San Francisco, California

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    Just in time for the spring and summer travel season, misterb&b has created the Queer Safety Index to aid LGBTQ+ travelers in selecting a fun and safe escape.

    The online travel portal, which connects travelers looking for queer-friendly accommodations (ranging from rooms to hotels from queer providers and allies), tips for dining, or even new companions or friends in faraway destinations, has created the index using a variety of source studying the climate for the community in states and cities nationwide.

    “The LGBTQ+ Safety Index is an ordered ranking based on a weighted scoring model incorporating multiple data sources, starting with misterb&b most booked destinations,” misterb&b explains in a recent blog post.

    In addition to examining travel trends and preferences from its vast customer, vendor, and online databases, misterb&b also used the Movement Advancement Project’s (MAP) Overall Policy Tally to assess state-level protections and risks, the Human Rights Campaign’s (HRC) Municipal Equality Index (MEI) to evaluate a city’s LGBTQ+ policies, as well as the American Civil Liberties Union to examine legislative risks, PFLAG for its community support, and the latest data from the Federal Bureau of Investigation for safety and hate crime reporting.

    You can follow the links to learn more about misterb&b and its Queer Safety Index.

    Keep scrolling to see misterb&b’s top 15 safest U.S. cities for LGBTQ+ travel.

    15. Washington, DC

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    U.S. Capitol building, Washington, D.C.

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    Despite the current Trump administration, our nation’s capital scores high marks across the board for LGBTQ+ travelers. It has the Smithsonian museums, historic monuments, and grand architecture for daytime activities and a great foodie and nightlife scene for after sunset.

    misterb&b score: 0.737

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Washington, D.C.: 40.75/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: N/A

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Washington, D.C. at misterb&b.

    RELATED: Barry Hoy shares why Capital Pride is a celebration of love, diversity, and star-studded performances

    14. New York City, New York

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    Statue of Liberty overlooking New York City, New York

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    While some may say The Big Apple is too low on this list, NYC – with its fine dining, lights of Broadway, the museums, and the nightlife that last until dawn – is still a bucket list destination for many gays..

    misterb&b score: 0.75

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – New York: 44.5/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to New York City at misterb&b.

    RELATED: Broadway-bound – the best hotels in NYC’s Theater District

    13. Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

    Liberty Bell and Independence Hall in Philadelphia Pennsylvania

    Liberty Bell, Independence Hall, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

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    Our nation’s original capital, Philadelphia is filled with history as well as a rich LGBTQ+ scene.

    misterb&b score: 0.776131

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Pennsylvania: 16.75 (fair)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Philadelphia at misterb&b.

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    12. Palm Springs, California

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    Marilyn Monroe statue in Palm Springs, California

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    Palm Springs is a cultured oasis of LGBTQ+ inclusivity, where the gays can escape to fine dining, accommodations for every taste and budget, and stunning natural surroundings.

    misterb&b score: 0.782136

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – California: 45/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Palm Springs at misterb&b.

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    11. Cathedral City, California

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    The not-so-famous 'Cathedral City' sign in Cathedral City, California

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    While not as well-known as its neighboring Palm Springs, Cathedral City has plenty of action at clothing-optional gay resorts.

    misterb&b score: 0.785347

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – California: 45/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Cathedral City at misterb&b.

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    10. Providence, Rhode Island

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    Providence Performing Arts Center in Providence, Rhode Island

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    Providence is the biggest city in the smallest state, a true hidden gem for the LGBTQ+ community with its nightlife, food scene, and waterfront location.

    misterb&b score: 0.788671

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Rhode Island: 38/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Providence at misterb&b.

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    9. Las Vegas, Nevada

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    The famous 'Welcome' sign in Las Vegas, Nevada

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    Sin City has it all for the gay community, with great dining and nightlife opportunities.

    misterb&b score: 0.794831

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Nevada: 41.25/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Las Vegas at misterb&b.

    RELATED: Las Vegas is a top LGBTQ+ destination, and the day clubs are more inclusive than ever

    8. Albuquerque, New Mexico

    Poco Apoco Plaza in the historic Old Town section of Albuquerque New Mexico

    Poco Apoco Plaza in Albuquerque, New Mexico

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    Sitting at an elevation of 5,312 feet, Albuquerque is the other ‘mile high city.’

    misterb&b score: 0.801627

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – New Mexico: 36/49 (medium)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Albuquerque at misterb&b.

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    7. Denver, Colorado

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    Union Station in Denver, Colorado

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    The Mile High City has quickly become a world-class city with unparalleled natural beauty, major sporting teams, a progressive culture, and a thriving LGBTQ+ community. And the state is led by out by Democratic Gov. Jarid Polis.

    misterb&b score: 0.803871

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Colorado: 45.25 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Denver at misterb&b.

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    6. Honolulu, Hawaii

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    Surf shack on the beach in Honolulu, Hawaii

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    Surf’s up for LGBTQ+ travelers at this true island paradise.

    misterb&b score: 0.805810

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Hawaii: 31.75/49 (medium)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Honolulu at misterb&b.

    RELATED: Where to wet your whistle in gay Honolulu

    5. San Diego, California

    Aerial view of Coronado Bridge in San Diego bay in southern California on a warm sunny day with boats in the bay and cars crossing the bridge

    Coronado Bridge connects communities in San Diego, California

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    Proudly billing itself as “America’s Finest City,” sunny San Diego is famous for its mild year-round climate and thriving gay community.

    misterb&b score: 0.819190

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – California: 45/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to San Diego at misterb&b.

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    4. Portland, Oregon

    Downtown Portland Oregon with Marquam bridge over the Willamette River and view of Mount Saint Helens

    Marquam Bridge in Portland, Oregon

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    ‘Keep Portland Weird’ isn’t just a slogan for some in this beautiful Pacific Northwest city, which might factor into why it’s so popular among LGBTQ+ travelers.

    misterb&b score: 0.828624

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Oregon: 37.5/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Portland at misterb&b.

    RELATED: Your gay guide to the Oregon wine country just outside Portland

    3. San Francisco, California

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    The famed Castro District ('The Castro') in San Francisco, CA

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    With its history of gay activism, the Castro, a culinary scene second to none, and a true ‘small city’ experience set in a truly stunning location, there’s no need to explain why the City by the Bay ranks so high on everone's bucket list.

    misterb&b score: 0.859765

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – California: 45/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to San Francisco at misterb&b.

    RELATED: Exploring San Francisco on a budget

    2. Seattle, Washington

    Seattle Washington downtown skyline Space Needle tower and Mount Rainier

    Space Needle tower in downtown Seattle, Washington

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    Seattle is famous for its seafood and stunning scenery, but safety means it’s also a great destination for LGBTQ+ travelers.

    misterb&b score: 0.8820167396811622

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Washington: 40.25/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Seattle at misterb&b.

    RELATED: Seattle offers wet and wild queer romance

    1. Chicago, Illinois

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    Millennium Park in Chicago, Illinois

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    The Windy City tops this list for safety but also has multiple gayborhoods, museums, nightlife, and an outstanding foodie scene.

    misterb&b score: 0.925818

    MAP Overall Policy Tally – Illinois: 43/49 (high)

    HRC Municipal Equality Index: 100

    Learn more about LGBTQ+ travel to Chicago at misterb&b.

    RELATED: A queer guide to Chicago gayborhoods

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