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20 Things I've Learned About Myself from Being a Queer Slut
  
I love the word 'slut.' I’ve embraced it. In fact, the necklace that dangles from my neck proudly reads 'SLUT' in all caps. I feel like it accurately represents who I am. Without a doubt, I am an ethical slut. I don’t lie about what I want, and I engage in safe-sex talks with all of my partners. That said, I love dick. I love butts. I love men.
And here’s what I’ve learned about myself from being a big ol’ slut.
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1. Keep your bowel movements loose

2. Eat more olive oil

3. Don’t hold in your poops

4. Make friends with aloe vera

5. Use more lube during sex than you thought possible

6. Soak in a hot bath

7. Cool it with the bottoming for a little bit

8. Give Botox a try, it's for more than just wrinkles

9. Preparation H

10. AnuSol Cream

11. Rectiv Rectal

12. If all else fails…surgery

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