Here's what to give your valentine this year, according to your Lovable Trans Auntie
| 02/07/25
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Marie-Adélina, your Lovable Trans Auntie, has you covered with gift ideas this Valentine's Day.
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Valentine's Day is the annual reminder that love is in the air…or, at the very least, all over your Instagram feed. But while some are lost in a whirlwind of prix-fixe menus and heart-shaped everything, I like to think of it as a day for pleasure in all its forms. Whether you're indulging in romance or friendship or a little me, myself, and I time–who can forget about self-love?–you deserve gifts that make your heart race. So, from sultry scents to a celebration of queer history, luxury lube to the perfect lip, here are my Lovable Things for this Valentine's Day.
Because love should always come with a little extra sparkle.
Viva Glam Lipstick
There's something about applying a bold red lip. And when it's MAC Viva Glam, it screams main character energy. But it's not just about the look. With every cent raised toward supporting and empowering marginalized groups, this is the sexiest way to give back while looking absolutely kissable.
Baller Luxe Red Hot Briefs
Sexy doesn't always have to involve lace and frills—it can mean feeling good in your own skin. Woxer's inclusive and ethical line is made for every body, serving up comfort and confidence in equal measure. Whether you're lounging solo or undressing for a special occasion, these are a must-have.
Cherry Bomb Brites
If Cupid wore sneakers now, they'd look like these: Freshy is bright, bold, and never skimps on comfort, turning every sidewalk into your personal runway. Who needs a Valentine when you've got fresh kicks?
Flamboyants: The Queer Harlem Renaissance I Wish I’d Known
Forget roses: this is the bouquet we need. In Flamboyants, prolific writer George M. Johnson celebrates the unsung queer icons of the Harlem Renaissance, from writers to performers to activists whose legacies have been hidden from history's fine print. Whether gifting this to a young dreamer or adding it to your own must-read stack, this is a love letter to the culture that shaped us.
Almond Biscotti Candle
If love had a scent, I imagine it would be this: warm almond biscotti fresh out of the oven lingering in the air to romance your senses. Radiant Light Candle Company's candle (also available as a spray) transforms your home into the coziest, most romantic café with no reservations required.
Romy & Michele Candle Set
There's nothing wrong with showing your friends some love! This candle set from Bijou Candles takes inspiration from the hit '97 film. The Romy candle is a juicy blend of peach, sweet fig, and vanilla orchid, while the Michele is a dream mix of peach, apple, and orange mixed with lilac and must. Light them up, grab your bestie, and relive the magic of making your own rules.
Bordeaux Wool Tweed Vest
I firmly believe Valentine's Day is also an occasion to spoil the four-legged loves in your life. Bondir's Bordeaux Wool Tweed Vest is pet fashion at its finest, blending classic wool tweed with luxe leather and cozy details that meet high fashion. Plus, you can buy a human jacket to serve matching looks this season and beyond!
Rosehip Hibiscus Face Creme
Love may give you a glow, but hydration keeps it there. The Rosehip Hibiscus Face Creme from Wholesome Hippy is a love letter to the skin, designed to hydrate, heal, and tone. Because the only thing that should look tired is your ex's attempt at a late-night text. Dewy, fresh, and revitalized? Now, that's a love story worth celebrating.
The Cosmopolitan
Nothing says romance and mischief quite like a Cosmo, and On The Rocks Premium Cocktail has you covered. Infused with Effen Vodka, the ready-made Cosmopolitan cocktail is a perfectly balanced mix of sophistication and ease. Just pour it into an iced glass and toast to love, friendship, or another fabulous night of being you. (Please drink responsibly; must be legal drinking age to purchase.)
Überlube
For the nights when flowers and chocolates aren't quite enough. Flying solo or entertaining a partner (or partners—Auntie doesn't judge), Überlube is the gold standard in luxury lubrication. No sticky residue, no weird fragrances, just pure, high-quality glide for whatever adventures the night may bring.
Celebrate Valentine's Day Your Way!
Courtesy OTR Premium Cocktails; Courtesy of Marie-Adélina de la Ferrière; Courtesy BONDIRValentine's Day is what you make of it, from a candlelit dinner for two to sweating it out on the dance floor or a cozy night spent spoiling yourself. So slip into something comfortable (or nothing at all), put on some music, and remember: the best love story this Valentine's Day is the one you write for yourself.
And take it from Auntie, you deserve a happy ending.
