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By Ana ValensDecember 14 2016 / 6:31 PM
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Ana Valens is a trans woman and queer critic. She writes about representation in media and the daily lives of queer and trans women living in the United States. Alongside PRIDE, her work has been seen on Bitch Media, ZEAL, The Mary Sue, Kill Screen, and The Toast.
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20 Gifts for the Kinky Man in Your Life
  
You’re tired of a vanilla sex and want to get him something a little kinky for the holidays? We’ve got you covered. But before you start, remember that kink is a complicated thing. Rope, whips, rough play—all of these things can cause major harm or damage without proper safety precautions. Before we show off our gift suggestions, we highly recommend reading UberKinky’s essential guides on kink sex first.
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You’ve probably heard someone mention anal fissures at some point in your life...

1. Keep your bowel movements loose

2. Eat more olive oil

3. Don’t hold in your poops

4. Make friends with aloe vera

5. Use more lube during sex than you thought possible

6. Soak in a hot bath

7. Cool it with the bottoming for a little bit

8. Give Botox a try, it's for more than just wrinkles

9. Preparation H

10. AnuSol Cream

11. Rectiv Rectal

12. If all else fails…surgery

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