"Lost in the Fire" features the singer challenging a woman to let him turn her straight during a threeway.
rachelkiley
January 12 2019 2:45 PM EST
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"Lost in the Fire" features the singer challenging a woman to let him turn her straight during a threeway.
The Weeknd recently released a new collab with Gesaffelstein called “Lost in the Fire.”
A number of fans are saying it’s dissing Drake and talking about how much The Weeknd wants to have sex with his on again, off again girlfriend Bella Hadid (who was rumored to have dated Drake when they were broken up), but there’s something a lot more insidious than that about the lyrics.
"You said you might be into girls (into girls)
You said you’re going through a phase (through a phase)
Keepin’ your heart safe (keepin’ your heart safe, oh)
Well, baby, you can bring a friend (bring a friend)
She can ride on top your face (top your face)
While I fuck you straight (while I fuck you straight, yeah)"
...yeah.
While it’s completely valid to explore your feelings through your art, and that art is rarely a perfectly socially conscious thing, the lyrics to “Lost in the Fire” are pretty atrocious.
\u201ci used to joke that listening to The Weeknd was homophobic but the lyrics from his new song "lost in the fire" are actually fucking vile. in 2019 we're still doing "fuck you straight" and calling female queerness a "phase?"\u201d— Jill Gutowitz (@Jill Gutowitz) 1547239438
\u201ci don't like cancel culture & i'm not saying "cancel the weeknd," but these are the kinds of lyrics that fucked me up when i was younger & subconsciously kept me in the closet. so it's important to talk about and say "this is isn't ok"\u201d— Jill Gutowitz (@Jill Gutowitz) 1547239438
\u201cI threw The Weeknd away years ago but hearing his homophobic ass vile song about lesbianism being a \u201cphase\u201d and he\u2019ll \u201cfuck her straight\u201d while fetishizing his gfs sexuality for his own pleasure is enough to put the whole man in a shredder.\u201d— Bee (@Bee) 1547275656
\u201cConsidering how much lesbian sex I\u2019ve had while listening to @theweeknd, I\u2019m very disappointed in the gross \u201cI\u2019ll fuck you straight\u201d lyric in his new song. That\u2019s not just homophobic/biphobic, it\u2019s also something a lot of us have been directly threatened with by scary dudes.\u201d— Mary Emily O'Hara (@Mary Emily O'Hara) 1547252721
Just last month, a man in Seattle assaulted two married women at a Seahawks game, spending the majority of the game harassing them and asking if they needed a man, or “wanted some dick,” before escalating to physical violence.
Just yesterday, a thread went viral on Twitter about a lesbian being harassed by a random man at CVS for intimate details of why she didn’t date men.
A day ago, a week ago, a month ago — it’s not an uncommon story. Straight men still see turning lesbian or bisexual women “straight” (whatever that means) as a challenge to be issued and completed with their dick.
Of course, some of his fans are defending him, namely by claiming that if he’s open to having a threeway, how could that possibly be homophobic? So here’s a friendly reminder that queer women’s sexuality, or exploration of that sexuality, is not something that exists to be fetishized by straight men. Making it about that, or something to “conquer,” is, in fact, homophobic or biphobic.
And if the song really is about Hadid, hopefully she finds a safer space to explore her sexuality, because nobody deserves to be treated like who they are is just a phase.
\u201cin 2019 we are not sacrificing female queerness for toxic masculinity\u201d— Jill Gutowitz (@Jill Gutowitz) 1547239438
Rachel Kiley is presumably a writer and definitely not a terminator. She can usually be found crying over queerbaiting in the Pitch Perfect franchise or on Twitter, if not both.
Rachel Kiley is presumably a writer and definitely not a terminator. She can usually be found crying over queerbaiting in the Pitch Perfect franchise or on Twitter, if not both.