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14 Body Language Hacks to Figure Out if She's Into You

14 Body Language Hacks to Figure Out if She's Into You

14 Body Language Hacks to Figure Out if She's Into You

Is it in her smile?

SheWired helps you suss out those signals...




1. She locks eyes with you

If she keeps looking at you, our guess is she likes what she sees. Either that, or you've just been on America's Most Wanted.


2. She smiles

If she's flashing those chiclets, chances are you're off to a good start. Just make sure they're not filed to a point.


3. She mirrors your movements

This subconscious copycatting is a way of saying "I like you, I feel a rapport with you and I bet you also secretly eat whipped cream straight out of the cannister and bite your toenails."


4. She runs her fingers through her hair

You've sent her straight into an on-the-spot grooming ritual because she wants to look HOT for you. Either that, or your headlice move really fast.


5. She wets her lips

She wants you to check her lips out and imagine kissing them. On the other hand, maybe your bacon double cheeseburger just looks nicer than her salad.


6. She leans towards you

She'd like to get closer, baby. Alternatively, she's about to offload 10 regurgitated sambucca shots into your lap.


7. That goodbye hug lasts forever

She needs to remember your scent and feel between now and the second date. Or maybe, just maybe, she's worked out what pocket your wallet's in.




8. She avoids eye contact with you

But hey, don't worry - it might just be an elaborate attempt to recreate those OK Cupid! angles.


9. She doesn't smile

If she spends the date stony-faced, your post-modernist knock-knock jokes probably aren't working.


10. She keeps looking around the room

Possibly a sign that she's about to make an excuse to leave the table - a long toilet visit, taking her time at the bar, escaping from the premises entirely or making a beeline for that cute redhead at table two.


11. She folds her arms

Ouch - defensive body language. Those boobies are off-limits. 

12. She leans away from you

It could be your garlic breath, it could be your love of Celine Dion, or it could be those knock-knock jokes. Whatever the reason, this ain't good news.


13. She's more interested in her cellphone than she is in you

Looks like the only crush going on here is of the Candy Saga variety. Sorry.


14. She tenses up for the goodbye hug

If you find yourself in five-second non-contact side-hug territory, you might want to cut your losses and ask her if she has any cute friends. You're welcome.

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