15 chaotic lesbian characters who we can't help but love

Lesbian representation in movies and TV used to be few and far between, but now we are gifted with more lesbian characters every year. When lesbians were a rarity in media, we only wanted to see characters who could be seen as good and worthwhile to the predominately straight American viewing public, but now we want complicated characters and women behaving badly. We want to see the full breadth of the lesbian experience — including problematic characters!

From characters who cheat on their partners, commit crimes, or have chaotic personal lives, we love these messy lesbians.

We love a fictional problematic lesbian!

Lou and Jackie (Love Lies Bleeding)

Yes, Jackie is a hothead who likes to use her fists to solve problems. Her relationship with Lou is volatile, and they are both murderers, but we still ended up rooting for their love story!

Jamie (Drive Away Dolls)

So, Jamie flirts with other women in front of her girlfriend and is all too happy to hold a suitcase hostage from criminals, but she's also a loyal AF friend, and, well, she's hot too.

Josie and PJ (Bottoms)

The whole premise of Bottoms is that lesbian best friends Josie and PJ start a fight club at school so they can trick cheerleaders into sleeping with them. They are not exactly model citizens, but they are also hilarious, and who can't relate to being an outcast in high school?

Jobu Tupaki (Everything Everywhere All At Once)

Yes, yes we understand Jobu's mega evil, is the living embodiment of Joy's nihilism. and massively destructive — but let's be real she is also serving nothing but c**t. She the ultimate chaotic lesbian in the literal sense and turned lewk after lewk. Do we want to marry her? No. But one weekend of passion and destruction? Yes, please.

Catra (She-Ra and the Princesses of Power)

Catra is peak lesbian toxicity turning rejection into rage when she believes Adora's exodus from the Evil Horde is also the abandonment of her. That being said, you can't help but love her. Her charm, her wit, her broken heart — its all lesbian cat nip (pun intended). Also, that chemistry between her and Adora is poppin'. Don't believe me, rewatch "Princess Prom."

Shane McCutcheon (The L Word)

If any character epitomizes the term "chaotic lesbian" it's Shane McCutcheon. Played (iconically) by Kate Moennig, Shane was the Sapphic awakening for a generation of baby dykes. She blazed a trail through the hearts of not one but two versions of the landmark series but was exactly the cautionary tale of lesbian drama and heartache you craved to learn the hard way.

Alex (Jagged Mind)

The twisty lesbian horror movie Jagged Mind will have you on the edge of your seat, in no small part due to the main character Billie's new girlfriend, Alex. Alex's love is obsessive and deranged, and when she finally drops the mask and lets us see the real her, it's creepy and so much fun to watch!

Marla Grayson (I Care a Lot)

Ok, yes, she may be a con artist who bilked senior citizens out of their assets and life savings, but she's ALSO a ton of fun to watch!

Aileen Wuornos (Monster)

In Monster, Charlize Theron plays the real-life lesbian sex worker turned serial killer. Obviously, she's a killer, but Theron's performance is so raw and emotional you can't help but feel for Aileen Wuornos — plus, the men she killed did seem terrible, so...

Mrs. Danvers (Rebecca)

The devious housekeeper — played by the wonderfully campy Judith Anderson — in Alfred Hitchcock's Rebecca may not be called a lesbian in the movie, but her obsession with the late Mrs. De Winter is absolutely queer-coded.

Barbara (Notes on a Scandal)

Judy Dench got an Oscar nod for her role as Barbara in Notes on a Scandal. First, it's Judy Dench playing an obsessive lesbian school teacher, but if that's not enough, Barbara is in love with Cate Blanket's character, who is having an affair with a 15-year-old student. The title doesn't lie; it is scandalous.

Santana (Glee)

Santana was a bully, but as the show continued, her character became less one-dimensional, and we started to love the lesbian cheerleader. Watching her with her girlfriend Brittany was sweet, and she was also one of the first lesbian Latinas on TV. We love to see it!

Bette Porter (The L Word)

There are a TON of problematic lesbian on The L Word, but Bette has a long list of crimes, starting with cheating on Tina in the very first season. But she's also lovable, grows throughout the series and is played by the stunning Jennifer Beals so we can't but love her anyway.

Cleo (Set it Off)

Queen Latifah plays lesbian bank robber Cleo in this fun heist movie. Cleo is the embodiment of Be Gay Do Crime, and while her criminality may make her problematic, we love her for it.

Finely (L Word: Generation Q)

The reboot of The L Word may have only lasted three seasons, but it reunited us with some of our fave characters and introduced us to new faces like the chaotic Finely, who may have been cute AF, but she ends up hurting the people around her because she doesn't have her own shit worked out.