So you met a cutie (or already have a cutie) and you want to get it on, but really want to make sure to get him in the mood.
No need to stress! After all, that can make the whole experience less fun. If you're not having fun, what's the point?
If you want to get him going, try out these 24 moves that are sure to get him excited in a heartbeat.
Don’t just jump in! Flirt a little, make him comfortable, or start to work your magic after a nice dinner. You’ll only get things going if he’s ready.
What do you like? What do you not like? How are you feeling in this moment? Sometimes being vocal goes a long, long way and reaffirms everything is going right.
Choose a soundtrack and let it play! Sometimes a little tunes (especially those written for sexy times) can make the experience just that much better.
Not everybody likes to be touched in the same way. Finding his special spots and utilizing them is sure to help drive him wild.
There’s nothing hotter than a guy who tugs your bottom lip. Give it a shot when you break off the kiss.
First use your fingers, then kiss his jaw, then give it a few licks. He’ll really appreciate your attention.
And why stop at the jaw? Lean over, kiss, and lick his neck. That’s sure to get him going fast.
There’s nothing like a gentle caress along the sides. Run your fingers gently up and down his hips and stomach to achieve this one.
Sometimes the absence of one sense can heighten the others. Adding in a blindfold can make every touch feel that much better, especially as he connects more with his body along the way.
Pet it, lick it, kiss it. It’s all good. As long as he knows you’re about to go down on him, then you’re golden.
There’s nothing like kissing and sucking on a guy’s chest, is there?
Oh, and if you aren’t squeezing or teasing while you’re grabbing, then you’re making a big mistake. Use this one to get him nice and hot.
Tell him something naughty, but don’t just stop there. Feel around a bit. Graze his jaw, rub his tummy, grab his butt...you know what to do!
Whisper one of his fantasies in his ear, or tell him a little story about what you plan to do to him. It will drive him crazy.
Has your boyfriend ever told you a fantasy he’s always wanted you to enact on him? Why not give it a shot? This is a great way to turn him from sleepy to wide awake during an early morning cuddle.
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There’s nothing like a little teasing hot breath on his ear or neck. Go ahead, lean in close. He’ll love it.
Soft, gentle bites can lead to rough ones. Every boy knows that. But a great way to get your man turned on is to tease him with this start.
Check out our lists of toys to buy him and use with him. From the sexiest to the weirdest, we have you covered.
A well-placed thong or jock strap can make all the difference. Try on some new clothes to get him turned on.
Mix and match these moves. Leave him in suspense. It can drive him wild, making him want you all the more.
Don’t forget that gentle traces down a chest or stomach can drive your man wild. Don’t be afraid to be gentle. Sometimes it’s the best kind of teasing around.
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Go slow, then fast. Trail your way down his front then slow down before you go further. Don’t just go all fast or all slow. Mix it up for best results!
Sometimes a well placed hug from the back can turn the heat up for the night. Don’t be afraid to try something brand new, just make sure you’re careful—and he’s feeling comfortable.
Don’t forget to let him tease you a bit. He’ll be so pent up, it’s safe to say he’ll have a reward for you.